Thursday, March 29, 2012

Create the Life You Want to Live

Self empowerment is exactly that, powerful. It doesn't matter where you came from or what your circumstances are. What matters is what your goals and dreams are and what type of life you can create for yourself.

Mind over matter. The world is your oyster. Everyone has gifts and talents so why not share them with the world?

Problems and obstacles are apart of life. Finding solutions and overcoming challenges are part of the journey.

Have you made goals for 2012?

Figure out what you want (goals), make a plan, take action, and follow through.

Rome was not build over night.

I wish myself, family, friends, co-workers, and everyone else much success and happiness with their life. You only get one chance to live so create something wonderful.

What is your recipe for life?

Thursday, March 22, 2012

Happiness

A feeling of contentment

Joy and energy flowing through my body

I am at peace

Love is abundant

My mind is empty

My emotions are stable

My body is in shape

Giggles and laughter fill the air

I sleep well and have happy dreams

I enjoy life and everything it has to offer

I enjoy my job

Friends are everywhere

Fun and hobbies fill my days

Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Passion

Adrenaline flowing through my body
For I cannot contain how I feel
I feel so alive
All I want to do is focus on you every minute of every day
You are my life
Everything I ever wanted
I am so lucky that I found you
Sweet dreams my love
For I cannot wait until tomorrow
I am happy just to spent time with you
Nothing else matters as long as I have you
My one and only true love

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

Spring has arrived

Spring has arrived

The sun is shinning

Flowes are starting to grow

Everyone is smiling, dancing, and having fun

It's time to get off the couch and put on those shorts

Go play outside

For spring has arrived

Sunday, March 18, 2012

Love is Medicine

Spending time with people that you really care about you is precious. Fancy food and drinks are just extra. In a world where people are fighting and struggling to survive having people that really care about you is a true gift. Lots of people are lonely, depressed, and sad. The ones that are fortunate enough to find peace and happiness with themselves are lucky. May positive energy and love flow through your heart and touch the souls of others.

Love always, Candice Hung

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Little Children

I love children and that will never change.

You bring a smile to my face even on the rainy days.

You are so cute. I love your tiny little hands.

The world is your oyster. Let me show you the way.

We can play and play and sing songs all day.

We can laugh and giggle and make play dough together.

I'll teach you manners and help you grow.

I love to see you everyday you are my pleasure.

Now I have faith that there is a place that I can call home.

What am I living for?

What am I living for but to wake up every morning to go to work, eat, sleep and do it all over again. If there is no joy in my day then what is the point? It is possible to have a career that I enjoy and can make money off too. Happiness is essential to life and so is making money. I need to live for myself and find ways to make myself happy. Love will come when it is time until then I have myself, family, and friends. I must not look for love to complete me as I can not rely on another person to make me happy. All those little connections I have must be treasured and cherished. New connections will be created and old ones will me nourished. Keep your head up even when it's raining as the sun will eventually shine.

Monday, March 12, 2012

The Law of Attraction

Do you believe in the law of attraction? I myself can't say whether I truly believe in it or not.

I do believe that the more energy and focus I put into something or someone the more real it will become.

I also feel that knowing what you want is the first step to obtaining goals. If you don't know what you want how can u aim for something?

Well here I go. These are the things I want in life:

A new career that I love and is financially rewarding.

More free time to myself.

More time for exercise.

More time to relax.

More time to enjoy and all it's experiences.

Spent more time with close friends and family.

To travel the world.

To have my own place, apartment , condo.

To be debt free

To have savings for a rainy day and retirement.

To have children, work with children or both.

To meet my soulmate and start a family with two children. One boy and one girl.

To own a car again.

To be onetime for work and appointments.

To focus on a few things and achieve goals I have created.

To commit to myself and to my goals and to follow through with plans by taking action.

To be more proffesional and street smart.

To control my emotions and work on my responsibilities and accountability.

To continue journaling and writing and make some money off of it at the same time.

To have fun, relax, laugh, and do things that I enjoy.

Saturday, March 10, 2012

Life

Like a roller coaster going up and down

Challenges are always around

There are happy times and sad times

Nothing is guaranteed

Connections are all around me

It's those moments when somebody knows me deeply that matter the most

Love comes and goes

Always live for yourself

Don't be afraid to take risks

It's about the experience and the journey

The outcome is the end result

Live with passion and authenticity

At the end of the day you are the only one that knows who you really are

Only you know what you truly want and desire

Love yourself and others and love will return one way or another

Don't forget to laugh and smile

Give somebody a hug

Never be afraid to be who you are

When one door closes another door opens

There are no wrong choices only decisions to be made

Friday, March 9, 2012

The joy of humor and laughter

I watched improve theatre sports today and was rewarded with humor, laughter, and entertainment. Six wonderful people stood right before me expressing their creativity to those lucky enough to watch. All my worries and stress melted away as I was overcome with laughter. Life need not be to stressful. Work is only one aspect of life

Thursday, March 8, 2012

The gift of empathy

I was literally going to explode yesterday but I was saved by empathy. I was so frustrated with life and so angry that anything and everything was pushing my buttons. I didn't need a hug,a kiss, money, or advice. I needed someone to care and understand what I was going through. My distress when from a ten to a one in less than 15 minutes. I am so grateful that there are empathetic people, trained counsellors, and trained crisis intervention volunteers out there to help people when they are having a crisis. It's the gift of being heard, understood, unjudged with compassion. Having a compassionate human that can really put themselves in your shoes at the end of the day is priceless. To me that is true love from another human.

Monday, March 5, 2012

Get out of your head and start living

I had a great weekend exercizing, socializing, and having fun. Time off from work was exactly what I needed. Part of being happy including physical exercise, eating healthy, socializing, and having fun.

There is a time for everything. Make sure you schedule an appointment with yourself to exercise and socialize. Life is not always about working. You deserve a break today.

Thursday, March 1, 2012

Working with People

Working with people can be the most rewarding and the most difficult experience sometimes. I have been working in the customer service industry for 13 years. I love engaging and interacting with people on a daily bases. Ever person is unique and has different needs. Working with people makes it interesting as it can become routine and mandane sometimes. Building relationships and connections with customers is my strength.

Personally I like to help, support people, and add to their happiness. If I am contributing to society in this way I feel that I and giving to humanity and being fulfilled as a person at the same time.

When work is just work

From my own personal experience I find it hard to separate work and personal life a lot of the times. I spend most of my time working, eating, and sleeping. If I am motivated and have spare time I exercise, socialize and do things that I enjoy such as singing, writing, spending time with children, watching movies etc.

As humans we are all trying to get our needs met. I myself must remember that work is a place to make money and nothing else. Work is not a place to make friends, socialize, find a boyfriend, have fun, and get my unmet childhood needs met. All these other needs I need to get met in order to live a happy and well balanced life must be met outside of work which means time management on my part. I am still learning to create healthy boundaries with myself and others to keep me safe. Havimg healthy boundaries also makes life easier, more peaceful, and helps to build healthy relationships at the of the day.

There all types of boundaries including emotional, social, mental, physical, and
psychological boundaries. It is my responsibility to create and maintain my own boundaries and respect others peoples boundaries at the same time.

There is always learning in life for me whether it is a positive or negative experience. A positive attitude, resilience, and perseverance makes facing life easier. Fun, laughter, and love are just as important as making money and being responsibly. It's always about balance at the end of the day. I have also learned that I am only responsible for my own happiness and health. I must always take care of myself and help myself first before others. Neglecting myself would be a step backwards and will not help me achieve my life long dream of getting married and starting a family.

Emotional Boundaries

When other people project their emotions on to you it is never personal. It's hard to let it go and forgive others when it feels like they are literally dumping their crap onto you. Holding onto that anger is more poisonous than letting it go and forgiving the other person.

As humans we experience all sorts of emotions all the time. We can feel happy, sad, scared, angry, anxious etc. the list goes on. A lot of the times all of us just need a bit a love. A hug, some kind words, a smile or even a kiss goes a long way. We all need some emotional support sometimes. It can be hard to be self reliant, imdependent, and "perfect" all the time. Love, acceptance, patience, forgiveness, a good laugh, healthy boundaries, and understanding are all keys to all healthy relationships.